how japanese hospitality inspired me

Anyone who has had the pleasure of visting Japan has been touched by the attention to detail and the level of care that each induvidual has for their craft, the space that they occupy. You can really feel this when you are totally present in your environment and disconnected from the world around you.

You notice the ever-changing colors on the trees. You notice the way the towels outside the onsen are folded. You notice that each item with breakfast is served on a different ceramic dish and is uniquely beautiful. You notice that when you put your shoes on and are ready to go outside, the staff has taken liberty of dusting off the dirt from your day of exploring the day before.

And it is all of these seemingly small moments, that are not so insignificant. That are not so small. There is beauty in the every day, in service, in hospitality.

Japan is such a special place, a place I hope to return to someday. This hotel in Hakone is tucked away in the neighborhood of Gora. From the moment that you arrive on site, you can feel the warmth of the staff and the pride they feel in the work they do. From the smell of the hallway, to the radio / speaker in the dining area for putting on your tunes of choice during dinner, there is no detail that goes overlooked. This recent trip has inpsired me to slow down more and notice the small things that affect our daily lives. Someone, somewhere has put thought into the end result I see before me.

The questions I am asking myself now are: how can I make little choices that can positively impact the end result of someone’s day? How can I do something seemingly small that is actually not so small? When it comes to my work in the real estate industry, how can I train my eye to see additional value in an apartment home or a New York City neighborhood, something I can share with clients or potential buyers? When I am working with a seller to put their apartment home, what can I highlight to buyers that speaks to their core beliefs? It is questions like these that both challenge and encourage me to look at things from a different perspective.

Time to Get Un-Funky

I’ll admit it – the last few years of my life I feel like I’ve been in a funk. Like I’ve been caught up in a routine of life, that I haven’t been living out my purpose. I feel lost and confused, like walking through a maze with a blindfold on.
For me, trying to spark up creativity can be a trying and frustrating process. Especially when everything I am drawing, painting, and writing is just a bit off, but I can’t put my finger on why. What I find is that the most passion comes from your projects, is when your work comes FROM joy, not for it. You don’t have to prove your talent to anyone, you are already so incredibly gifted. Create art from your happy heart, and your work will show your joy.
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Create because you see beauty that gives you joy, and you want to capture the moment and share it with someone else because you want them to feel the same way. It is easy to spot when someone’s work is not for themselves, and the best way to counter that and to be authentic is to find pure unfiltered and joy in what you are creating.
I was walking around one of my favorite New York neighborhoods on a cool rainy Sunday morning and snapped a photo of some Gramercy townhouses (I mean… house goals right there). I absolutely love line drawings and I wanted to share this serene moment because it reminded me why I fell in love with New York almost 10 years ago.
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So ask yourself: what are the things you like to do? And more importantly, what brings you happiness in both good times and bad? Someone once said to me, “what do you love to do so much that you would do it for free?” If you are still trying to figure it out like I am, that’s okay. Answering those questions is a good place to start.